In terms of relationships, I absolutely consider myself to be a fair, logical, and sensible person - not terribly romantic overall, although I used to be in high school. What I am looking for in a relationship right now - as a twenty-six year old successful male - is not unconditional love, but something that is balanced between our careers, our personal time, and our own mutual interests as a couple. In short, I want a relationship where each person involved does not require the relationship for personal happiness.
Do I want to spend every free minute of my time with my significant other? Hell no. Do I want to visit my friends - men or women - on a regular basis? Yes. Does my significant other have to understand or be involved in every aspect of my life? Absolutely not. Of course, I would hope that my significant other shares these ideals. I have not yet found one who does.
I am not entirely cold-blooded, if that is the notion you are taking away from this rant. With the right girl, I can definitely be as romantic, loving, and caring as the best of them.
However, what I may be lacking at the moment is confidence. With my life becoming very stagnant over the last few years, I have lost some of my focus on the above ideals. I have lost what makes me happy.
Given all the changes coming up in my life, I hope that I regain the confidence I need to pursue a strong, healthy relationship down the road.
B3 out.
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